Why there are more Devdas' in today's world??

Why is it that guys are the ones who almost always seem to face "love failure"? They make girls look heartless!!! They totally refuse to put themselves in a girl's position and condemn all girls once and for all. They have absolutely no idea what a girl goes through a home. If the expectations are high from a guy, even more is expected from a girl.

Women are caring and nuturing by nature. The tendency to "mother" comes automatically especially when they meet a guy who seems to be screaming "i get no love and attention, so care for me!"This is what most guys mistake as love.

Guys don't understand that even friendship is a kind of love. a girl doesn't have to be a girlfriend to love him, even if she is just his close friend she'll still care for him.

A gentle look, or a caressing touch, and that's it, the guy falls head over heels for the girl. Once this happens he'll do anything for her. his may appeal to the girl and so she takes a liking towards him. Rarely does this go on as true love and end in mrriage, but most often it doesn't. It gets broken in the middle once the girl realises that it's all going too far, too fast!!

Being the more practical of the two, the girl tries to hammer some sense into the guy's head. but his skull being as thick as it is, nothing substantial gets in. The guy, the dreamer and romantic, is thoroughly convinced that nothing can stop true love (if it were true love!!). This is the effect of too many movies!! And he totally refuses to think about the future, if there is any at all.

Thus the girl becomes the villan, and the guy is the poor tormented soul. If only guys would learn to read a woman properly then heart breaks would be less, and we'd have less Devdas' walking around. But then again if this really happened, the world would be a diffferent place!!


statutory warning: this is wholly and totally my opinion. i am not trying to force it on anyone. readers are advised to read it with an open mind, especially guys!!